I routinely talk about why you need a new routine in retirement, that you cannot just wing it. Retirement gives you time to accomplish everything you have wanted to do that you have never had the time to do. Retirement can be fulfilling and full of purpose. I have always referred to what you want to accomplish in retirement as your bucket list. In this episode of Best in Wealth, I talk about why I am reframing the way I talk about retirement—and you should, too.
Outline of This Episode
- [1:11] Have you ever really challenged yourself?
- [4:28] James Kerr: Why My Retirement Won’t Include a ‘Bucket List’
Have you ever really challenged yourself?
I went scuba-diving on my honeymoon. I had one lesson from a guy who spoke three words of English and we went straight to the ocean and down 25 feet. Would I ever do it again? No! Am I glad I did it? Yes.
The second thing I challenged myself to do was skydiving (because my wife wanted to). I am terrified of heights—but I did it. When we got to the ground my wife said, “I want to do it again.” She got a resounding no from me.
The third challenge I faced head-on and accomplished was working in Alaska. I lived in a tent for three months working the fish. It was one of the most difficult three months of my life. But I did it. I am 100% glad I saw a challenge, took it on, and accomplished it.
James Kerr: Why My Retirement Won’t Include a ‘Bucket List’
In his opinion piece, James shares that he will never have a bucket list. He finds the idea of checking off items on a list until he “kicks the bucket” to be horrifying. Instead, he has created a challenge list of things he wants to achieve or experience in his retirement.
Your retirement can be whatever you want it to be. You can challenge yourself to adventures you would have never thought were possible. You can learn a new skill. You can stretch yourself to do something that terrifies you. The point? Make the focus of your retirement achieving great things, not watching the clock run down as you check off a list.
Listen to the whole episode to hear James’ entire piece on his challenge list!
Many people are retiring early
The stock market has been on a tear for the last 10 years, portfolios have grown, and people realized they could retire early. Many couples come to me to get a second opinion to make sure they are financially able to retire. Once they know the answer, we move on to the next important topic: are they mentally ready to retire? I ask a lot of questions to make sure they are ready. As a Certified Financial Planner, my job as a fiduciary is to make sure my clients are prepared for retirement both financially and mentally.
What challenges will you tackle in retirement?
Are you an early retiree? Are you thinking of retiring in the next 5–10 years? Humans thrive on routine. The routine that you come up with in retirement will be far different than working life. What is going to fill up your “challenge list?” It is time to challenge yourself to reframe the way you think about retirement. Are you ready?
- Why My Retirement Won’t Include a ‘Bucket List’ by James Kerr
- The Long Walk Home: How I Lost My Job as a Corporate Remora Fish and Rediscovered My Life’s Purpose
- James’ blog: Peaceable Man
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